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When things blow up! ashes to ashes

11/5/2015

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Sitting in an airport hotel, a nice one, navigating my last five hours of flight to Bali, and Denpasar airport. I am held over in Seoul, or SOUL due to a volcanic eruption in Indonesia. 

The writer’s retreat I am attending has been thrown into adventures galore, as the participants all have challenging experiences getting there.  As writers, it is just more stories or grist for our mills.. But as humans 
We don’t relish interruption and delays in our human made plans. Fear creeps in, doubt, self-doubt, all kinds of thought creatures try to make their home in us. Martha Beck uses the expression, “I did not see that coming,” 

A moment of humility comes to us, and we are forced to navigate with surrender as well as desire for an outcome.
 
When you suffer sudden loss, or change of any kind, it is human nature to reject reality and want something different. It is hard to look at the ‘what is” and accept that too, as the Divine Plan.   

I slept fitfully, not only because of jet lag, but because strangely, the clock did not seem to advance, and everything became slow and deliberate, and I had to look at several devices to prove to myself that the clock was not lying!
 

I heard the song, as I awoke at 3:30am, Into the Woods, outa the Woods. I considered what that message was about from the Great GCB (great cosmic being). I decided, I would arrive today in Bali, and that I really wanted to see it! I decided to play along with reality and see what I could do about shifting it along the generous lines of Heavenly perfection. Que Sera, Sera, whatever will be, will be, the futures not ours to see, Que sera, sera. 
 

So, when navigating uncertainty and changes, or sudden loss, be kind to oneself, go slowly, make time your ally, and trust that, in truth, we are all just tourists, traveling this Holy pace called Earth, all with temporary visas, of differing supposed lengths. As in the legendary exchange between Eckhart Tolle and the Great Teacher Krishnamurti, “Eckhart, have you discovered my secret?” “I am OK with whatever is. 

ME TOO! 

Wishing you the best of all worlds, 
From seoul, to soul, 

Satchi


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Occupy ME!

10/26/2015

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Hello there dear Readers… Today I got a call from someone who experienced a personal meltdown. He did not know how to find his way back to himself. After yet another broken promise, another broken relationship, another emptied bottle and spirit. 

My instructions were,” spend the  day writing to oneself, all the pitiful things about oneself and when you get tired and bored enough, write down in bold, on another sheet of paper 5 more interesting and creative things one could have chosen differently... Then the next time you feel like blowing your life up over some girl, life challenge or work stress, make yourself do at least 3 of the 5 things first. 

Occupy You! Not Wall Street or Pity Street, or Suicide Street! Occupy YOU and see who is in there.. 

Stay with it until you feel the recognition of Self with a capital S! Capital S or Superman or Supergirl, has ways of avoiding Kryptonite and embracing self-love and self-worth.  Think enough of Self, to make a choice that he/she would celebrate and be proud of. 

Some people call this God Reckoning, some call it coming home, whatever the metaphor, and know that it really is the only place for you. We need to learn to source ourselves from the deep well, not the shallows, of social media or TV or even blogs. 

Occupy YOU! Get to know yourself, watch and study your thoughts not only like the passing clouds they can be, but the toxic ones, observe like a cat, watching a mouse, stay calm, motionless and catch your mind at its familiar patterns and then say, STOP! Who goes there! Who are you to destroy my Hope, my Love, my Courage, my sacred human BODY, MIND or SPIRIT!????Who Are YOU? What ARE YOU? 

I did this once, and the result was the end of a pattern that had plagued my life and my joy since childhood. Instantly, once cornered the neuron paused in its execution, (ironic turn of phrase) and just like that I rewired myself. 
Occupy You! Do it now! Do it often! Like Nike, just do it! Please let me know how it works for you too… 

With Love and Light 
Satchi ​
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grieving the loss never known

3/25/2015

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Today I found out that someone close to me is dying. We were close to me in my childhood life and through the years lost touch. Interesting choice of words, lost touch. That is the feeling of grieving the loss never known. It is when you have loved someone, but life took you in different directions, and you never filled or mended the breach. Then suddenly it is too late.

You want to reach out and offer comfort, love and attention, but know that too much water has passed under the dam, too many moments missed to have a continuum of history, where it does not make the effort, suspect. You reflect on the love you shared, the moments of laughter, joy, sadness and all the range of human emotion. You wish you could have done better, loved more, stayed present, and wished, the other had done the same.

Emptiness fills you, another odd expression of paradox. So you weep. Hunger grips you and you sort through the pantry and refrigerator and nothing attracts. You too, are also dying, to the person you were with them. The person they could count on, the one that knew their deepest and truest thoughts, hopes and dreams. Grief and loss take many forms throughout our lives, and we have to allow ourselves to feel the pain of that which we did not get to express, live, or develop, and not try to move past the discomfort artificially.

Grief wakes us up to the passage of time, opportunity, and being present in the moment. Pay attention to the birth of spring! The flowers don’t last and the weather changes and children grow up and loved ones die and all is in constant movement into Impermanence. .All that remains is our experiences, and that, praise be, we can take with us when we cross over.

With love and light,

Satchi Royers

3/25/15

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Crop dusting for crazy

3/3/2015

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Someone called me recently and said, “Hey what’s going on in the Universe? It feels like someone is crop dusting Crazy!”  I think they felt themselves out of whack in the Universe and then when the reflection of others mirrored their own experience the question becomes…” Is it me? Or is the rest of the world off its rockers..?

I love the inference in” Crop Dusting For Crazy,” since it implies that not all crap belongs to us…It is a positive way of saying, there is a disturbance in the force and we are all responding to it, in the myriad ways our psyches allow. When the crop dusting companies spray pesticides etc…on agriculture crops, trouble occurs when they are not precise and end up spraying the organic field next door. Killing bees, poisoning pets etc…

“Crop Dusting For Crazy” acknowledges that we are sensitive and we can get caught up in the worlds unhealthy fascination with all things of a disturbing and negative nature. Cue all the murder, death and mayhem in news broadcasts and television shows. I often wondered why we had so many NCIS shows in all kinds of cities, until I realized that people are trying to forensically understand their own violent tendencies and fear addictions. There also is the element of facing the primordial fear of death, once you have vicariously died all these different ways in the characters of these shows, it  tends to desensitize one to ones’ own possible end.

So, whether it is your astrology chart, a problem with your meds, or the world is just plain disturbing, remember that all things pass, and this moment will too, try not to own everything, it may simply not belong to you, just part of the Universal Collective Consciousness of humanity trying to find its way to peace. If they are Crop Dusting for Crazy…get the heck out of the way….

Wishing you the best of all worlds…

Satchi

3/3/15

Colorado

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3 Frogs swimming

2/4/2015

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Did you ever hear that little small voice in your heart and your head, and shook it off? Only to find out later that it mattered for you to listen. Maybe it was saying a proper goodbye to someone, or making that phone call, just in timeMost of us would have to answer yesand for most of my life I have attended to that voice for the really big things, but ignored it for what I considered silly or seemingly insignificant. However, today I was walking back from the Makena beach before dawn, when the little voice spoke up.

The moon was full and I had just come from an Ocean offering prayer, where I had to let go of something that I had bound in the past. Feeling at peace and knowing that it was complete I headed back to my hotel room to ready for 6:30 am yoga. As I passed by the hotel swimming pool, a little voice said stop and go look at the water. I hesitated, arguing a little, that I knew what the pool water looked like since I had stopped by it the night prior. Then I thought it cost me nothing to agree with the small still voice and I peeked over at the pool depths.

There, swimming madly was a frog who had obviously fallen in and could not navigate the foot height to jump out with no launch pad. I was afraid I was going to have to go in for him when he swam over and I scooped him out into my palm. I released him into the safe bushes. The voice insisted I go back and look again and sure enough another unfortunate swimmer was therein. I scooped up froggie number two and he was less frightened and struggling then the first guy (must be a frog mental telepathy at work) and I released him at the same frog number one locale. Again, I was prompted to go back, and seriously no other had been evident in the well-lit pool. But yes, frog number three, materialized, just as desperate. This guy seemed to know the drill, and swam from the middle of the pool, directly to me and I scooped him up and placed him among his family.

I walked back to the hotel, I felt a sense of happiness and peace at the result of a few minutes work on Mother Natures behalf. The thought occurred to me, about how many decisions we make that have consequences for others, as well as ourselves. So, listen up folks, the world can be found in whispers, and you too could be a hero to another!

Love and Light

Satchi

Maui 2/4/15

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welcome blog post

1/13/2015

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Welcome to my new website! Here I hope to not only offer my storefront for my coaching services, books, vision quests, etc. but offer freely some of the downloads I receive from Spirit and Guides and Angels.

It is with a great lump in my throat that I come out of the closet with some of my more esoteric experiences. But it is my belief that there is no time like the present to tell the truth about who we are.

Throughout my life I have been a secret agent for change and have had so many Angelic and Spiritual helpers, it just seems wrong not to share. When asking the Universe, why me (which is a common disease of humanity “the why me’s”) I heard why not? Not only are we all special, all our voices matter.

I heard on a TV show the Ghandi quote, “a friendship that cannot handle dissent, is not a friendship” and I realized that although some may disagree with my points of view, they are just that.. points of view, or POW’s and one is entitled to take or leave it.

I hope with this website to help nourish my viewers, to embolden them to follow their own path, and to add hope and courage where it is needed. 

My life is full and ripe and my love is great so great that if I don’t give the world some I will explode from over full heart syndrome, or FHS   (I just invented that one the fly) hope the Pharmacom does not get a cure..

If you read my bio you will know a little of my public journey, if you sit around the web campfire with me I will try to show you through many means a little of Lightening in a Bottle, which you can then carry into your lives and the lives of your community members to foster them as well.

We all crave light, some have their own little headlamps, some have a key chain flashlight, and some are knocking around in the dark. I want to share with all of them. I want to be enlightened and I want to enlighten.. I hope you all will laugh and play with me.. my humor tends to the black, so don’t get offended, I know that we are “powerful, spiritual beings,” and the Angels are in awe of our bravery and courage to be in this classroom called Earth! Furthermore, in the immortal words of Dannion Brinkley, death and dying expert, (he not only died 6 times, but came back to tell about it) and helps others cross over peacefully.. He says as a challenge, to any haters out there “what are they gonna do? Kill me? I all ready died six times!!!

With my deepest gratitude to the Heavenly Host and GCB and YOU,

WELCOME! WITH LOVE AND LIGHT SATCHI ROYERS

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satchimore #3

1/13/2015

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Share the Concern, not the Burden!

This is a big one! How does one in talking with others and being with others share concerns, but not take on the worlds suffering or place it on another? We want to be able to share our lives, our loves, our concerns, regardless of their size or complexity. Maybe we want to save the rain forest, clean up the oceans, build schools in under developed countries, end world hunger or just want to share the fact our family is feed up and we are too! It is important to learn how to express our pain and suffering without causing the other to take it on, thereby increasing the burden load. The Tibetan Buddhists have a great one for this, it is called Tonglen practice. One breathes in suffering and breathes out peace, there by transforming the concern with compassion and that universal solvent LOVE .

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satchimore #2

1/13/2015

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Don’t think of the problems, think of the possibilities!

We often burden ourselves with an enumeration of the many challenges we face, thinking by enumerating we will make them smaller and less scary. It rarely works! Better to enumerate the potential gifts and possibilities generated by the challenge. Nature abhorring a vacuum, rarely leaves the solution outside of the problem! A medicine woman I studied with, Kachinas Kutenai, (May Great Spirit rest you’re beautiful and generous soul) told me that nature always provides the antidote to any harmful plant in the near vicinity. This is where knowledge and faith come in. Knowledge to know where to look and faith to know every problem has a solution.

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satchimore #1

1/13/2015

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Love is the greatest solvent on the planet!

Look at the word solvent. It means to dissolve into its elemental nature something. Once it is restored to its elements a thing can be reassembled or remade or made anew into an entirely new creation. Love being God is a creative force for good. Many persons that have been in seemingly impossible situations have been able to extricate themselves from difficulty with contemplation of this fact.

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satchimores!

1/13/2015

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During my time on the planet, which at this moment has been, wait a moment, I need to Google it,…cue jeopardy music, 58 years +or 698.9 months, or 3,038.9 weeks or 21,272.4 days or 510,538.5 hours, or 30,632,315.4 minutes or 1,837,938,949 etc seconds, (you get the idea, if not, visit Math Cats, for elapsed time calculator) I have often contemplated “what the hell am I doing here? How do I get Out of Here? Somewhere along this perplexing journey I decided to stick it out and practice” Grace Under Pressure” and learn to love the Planet and all of its inhabitants.. The planet came easy to love. The human inhabitants where a taller order! That said, I found many guides and teachers along the way in every imaginable form to assist me in the navigation of the thing called life.

I have spent the aforementioned time plus multitudes of money on books, yoga, formal education informal education, seminars, travel to sacred places.  Years of restless nights and days sitting my ass down to contemplate the invisible. I have years of walking and talking to those I met along the way, sharing my discoveries with theirs.

I devote my life to foster in those that I meet the best qualities they can manifest and joy in the discovery of it. Having said all that hence the reason for this little book. The ones I have met along the way had a habit of calling me up and saying Hey Satchi We are having an argument or discussion and so and so said call Satchi and ask her what she thinks!    As a former Political Science Graduate and Law School drop-out, I relish the idea of mediation. So I go in to my sacred inner being and ask the true question, what is really the matter at hand? Things rarely being only what they appear to be...I attempt to ferret out where the grow opportunity lies. This has led to a measure of success and happiness and resulted in what I call SATCHIMORES!

After being repeatedly badgered to write them down, I have conceded to do so.


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Transformative and Illuminating: Satchi lives this great depth of wisdom, understanding and compassion. A direct connection with God: the power of her living spirit is immense.
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